Before upgrading your macOS, you should take some time to prepare your computer. The two most critical preparation steps are backing up your computer, and removing/replacing 32-bit applications (macOS 10.14 and older).
You do not need to be connected to Carleton's network to upgrade. You can do the prep and upgrade from any location with a network connection. Set aside time to work through this list. Failing to do so could cause the upgrade to fail, rendering your computer unusable. You do not need to do these steps all at once, but you should keep track of what you have done so that you don't miss steps.
Know your current macOS version
Backup your computer
Check that your computer is eligible to upgrade
If your computer is not eligible to upgrade to Ventura, you should still upgrade it to Monterey.
Check the compatibility of your various applications
Run Apple Software Updates (for everything except the macOS Monterey/Ventura upgrade)
Check the readiness of your disk
Upgrade your macOS
After you upgrade
Known issues
About macOS
Apple's Upgrade Guide
List of 32-bit Mac Apps
Application Compatibility from Roaring Apps